By addressing unique triggers and creating a calm environment, caregivers can help improve a person’s comfort, safety, and quality of life.
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Here are a few tips that will help you settle down dementia patients at night.
1. Start the Evening Routine Before Dusk:
Many caregivers notice that agitation begins in dementia patients as the sun goes down. To reduce the risk of fear and confusion, begin preparing for the evening in the late afternoon.
- Help them change into comfortable clothing before sunset.
- Offer a light meal and avoid caffeine or sugary snacks.
- Close the curtains and turn on indoor lights to reduce shadows, which can cause confusion.
Read More: How to Encourage Seniors with Dementia to Eat More
2. Create a Peaceful Environment:
To help them settle down, make sure there is nothing in their environment that feels hostile or unsafe. Excessive noise, clutter, or activity can overwhelm the brain perceiving it as a threat. So, creating a peaceful and quiet environment based on their needs and behavior can help keep them calm.
- Play soft, familiar music they enjoy.
- Keep the comfortable room temperature.
- Keep the home well-lit during the evening.
- Remove extra things from the room to avoid confusion.
- Place things they know and love, like photos or a favorite blanket.
- Offer a warm, soothing drink, such as herbal tea or milk, if their doctor approves.
- Reduce background noise from television or loud conversations. You can use a white noise machine.
- Use a dementia clock that shows day and night.
3. Offer Gentle Reassurance:
Due to increased vulnerability and reduced emotional safety, feeling secure becomes a primary need for dementia patients. This becomes even more important when they are already experiencing disorientation and confusion at night. Reassurance from loved ones or familiar caregivers can help ease their anxiety and provide comfort.
Next time a dementia patient is feeling restless at night, try this:
- Sit beside them and speak softly.
- Remind them you are there to help and that they are safe.
- Simple phrases like, “You’re okay, I’m right here with you,” can make a big difference.
- Some caregivers find it helpful to frame themselves as a friend, saying things like, “It’s your friend here. Let’s get comfortable together.”
- If they get up during the night, talk to them in a soft-spoken manner and use simple words to reassure them.
4. Engage in Simple Activities:
When dementia patients stay active during the day with light, familiar tasks, they often feel more relaxed and tired by evening. This can reduce nighttime restlessness and help them settle more easily. However, trying to start new activities at night when they are already feeling confused or anxious may not calm them and can sometimes make things worse.
How does it help?
- They prevent boredom during the day, which can lead to better sleep at night.
- They use up energy in a healthy way.
- They create a sense of purpose, which helps reduce stress.
- They support a steady daily routine, which helps the body prepare for rest at night.
You can involve them in simple tasks such as folding laundry, setting the table, watering plants, or reading a book, etc.
5. Try Massage & Scents:
Using scents like lavender, vanilla, and chamomile, and gentle massage in the evening can help dementia patients feel more relaxed. These scents can be used through essential oils, diffusers, or lightly scented lotions.
While some research suggests these methods may have calming effects, there is not enough evidence to fully support this claim.
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Final Thoughts:
Behavioral issues in dementia patients can be challenging, but they should be handled with compassion. Once you understand the root causes behind their reactions and identify what triggers discomfort or agitation you can make their most distressing hours more peaceful.
FAQ’s
1. How do you calm a person with dementia?
To calm someone with dementia, speak in a soft, reassuring voice and maintain eye contact. Use gentle touch if appropriate. Redirect their attention towards something else like listening to music or looking at familiar photos. Stick to a predictable routine to reduce anxiety and avoid correcting or arguing with them.
2. Why do dementia patients get angry at night?
Anger at night can be caused by sundowning, a common dementia symptom. Fatigue, confusion from low light, unmet needs (like hunger or pain), and overstimulation from the day can increase frustration and aggression during the evening hours.
3. How to stop dementia patients from wandering at night?
To reduce wandering:
- Keep a regular sleep schedule.
- Make sure they use the bathroom before bed.
- Install door alarms or motion sensors for safety.
- Keep the environment calm in the evening.
- Secure the home and block access to exits during nighttime hours.
4. Why do dementia patients get scared at night?
Nighttime fear often comes from confusion, unfamiliar surroundings, and reduced visibility. Shadows and quiet, dark spaces can feel threatening. A nightlight, familiar objects nearby, and a soothing routine can help ease nighttime fears.
5. How to keep dementia and Alzheimer’s patients in bed at night?
Encourage physical activity during the day, avoid long naps, and create a calming bedtime routine. Make the bedroom comfortable, use safety rails if needed, and place essential items (like water or tissues) within reach. If wandering persists, consult a doctor to rule out medical causes.

Fakiha is an experienced writer at ConsidraCare with an optimistic interest in life. She has a proactive approach to improving health and wellness for seniors. She offers well-researched and thoughtful information to help individuals make informed healthcare decisions for themselves and their loved ones.